I usually try to keep it to myself because it may be a little dark, but my favorite Christmas song is Fairytale of New York
by The Pogues and Kirsty MacColl.
Perhaps it’s the way the lighthearted melody contrasts with the heaviness of the lyrics. Or maybe the writer in me is embracing its brutal honesty and hidden truths. It might even be the Celticness of it all, I don’t know, but whatever it is, it has an impact on me every time I hear it.
It’s raw. As the Irish often are. It’s real. Emotionally based. And it’s deep.
There’s something to be said for someone who has the grit to celebrate an imperfect life, holidays that turn out less than wondrous and writes lines like; “I could’ve been someone.”…“Well, so could anyone.”
Shudder.
It’s alright to admit your life hasn’t been perfect. That you’re not perfect. I remember, in a writing class years ago, the instructor told me my main character was too perfect. No one wants that. Imperfection is what encourages strength and growth. It makes us legit. Interesting. Three dimensional. Tempting. Addictive.
We can all be someone. Just the same as anyone. But different. We all get that chance. We just have to take it. And use it well.
Keep living. Keep fighting. Keep dreaming.
And don’t let anyone take any of that from you.
Hazy Shades of Me 
Yes Hazy “and so could anyone” given, or takin’ half a chance… For me, this is also a song among my favourites!
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Hazy,could it be, that a self identification with your, northern irish musical cultural celtic roots, being one of the reasons it’s your favourite. As to imperfection and inequality of life in society,that is so true for those who aspire to better themselves,but the system and circumstances hold them back,in attaining their goals, as the years tick by, whilst some others in society, have it handed to them on a silver platter. I’ve been in that situation for last decade, struggling just to live,whilst never giving up on my dreams,indeed a determination,to fight through my circumstance’s and not fail. It’s my belief that motivation comes from both my family and my hardworking class irish cultural background with emphasises on thrift,a good work ethic at it’s heart,is something we both have in common cuz.
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Yes Mark, that’s probably what I was getting out without having to actually say it.
As far as being held back when trying to attain goals – I guess everyone has their own ideas of what exactly is stopping them…
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Happy New Year to you and your family! Here’s to a safe and healthy 2014!
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Right back at you. Happy 2014!
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Greetings Hazy–Hope you enjoyed a Merry Christmas and I extend my wishes to you for a Happy New Year full of Peace and Contentment–all the best–Jim
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Jim! Happy New Year. I wish much happiness, health & prosperity!
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How have I never heard this song?! (And why, oh why, didn’t I catch up on your blog before Christmas?!)
I love it. Thanks for sharing.
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Doesn’t matter…just keep coming by!!
I’m super happy to have shared a song that you have never heard. Makes me feel I brought something to the table.
Happy to share!
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